5 Most Common Relationship Issues Every Nigerian Couple Faces

September 6, 2020

If you are in a relationship then I implore you to go through this list and identify the issue you have been battling for the past 3 months.

1. Drama and cameo appearances from the distinguished ex

There’s always one or two episodes dedicated to cameo experiences from an ex. They come in with a coy WhatsApp message or even a strategic comment on social media to shake the relationship and then bounce back to their life.

2. Whether or not bae/boo should know your phone password.

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This one is the OG of Nigerian relationships, if you both have not even argued over phone boundaries are you sure you are a couple? Please pause and check.

3. Chores.

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It starts with small but mighty things like who should cook and then graduates to who should wash the plates after cooking. Small but absolutely mighty.

4. Other miscellaneous trust issues

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When you call them and they don’t pick and don’t return your call immediately, when they leave you un-read and still leave you on read. When you see them dropping love emoji’s on other people’s pictures.

5. Acceptance from family members.

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It usually starts with the tests on this list. This is the real battle.

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